I hate that I have to wear glasses. I’ve had them since high school for distance and night driving, but I rarely wore them. As I entered my thirties, it was a given I had to have glasses at night to drive. No getting around it. My mid-forties when I couldn’t read the aisle markers hanging down in the grocery store, I knew I was sunk. But glasses for distance were annoying since they prevented me from reading the food labels and pricing . Close up, reading products on the shelf was like looking through blurred lenses. I tried contacts–one close up contact in one eye and one distance contact in the other eye. It’s not for a person who sits at the computer. Then I got computer glasses, hated those. After turning 50 last year, I got bifocals. First time I put them on I said You’ve Got To Be Kidding Me. I didn’t think I could get used to them. Now I love them. I have bifocals in my sunglasses too.
The trouble is . . . I don’t think I look good in glasses. My eyes are set too close together and the shape of my nose is weird so the glasses slide down it and then the top part of the frame is in the crease of my eye and you can’t see my “carefully” (LOL) applied eye make up. It’s a dilemma. Vanity. Eyesight. Vanity. Eyesight. Hmm.
I went to a charity fundraiser not to long ago and I chose Vanity. I couldn’t see a darn thing clearly if it was more than five feet away. I had to have my husband lead me through the room like a seeing eye dog, but I looked good in my long ballgown without four-eyes.
If I could only make contacts work. Why do my eyes have to be so problematic. I can’t see close, I can’t see far. I can see the computer, don’t mess with that line of vision. For this combo, there is no choice but glasses.
If anyone has any nice styles, please e-mail me the link where I can take a look at them. Thanks!

These three femme fatales are looking quite dashing in their peeps.

the best thing would be to do lasik. No more glasses and comfortable.
I asked my eye doc about lasik and my eyes are too weird to do it, darn it. I’m getting old lady eyes where I can’t see up close anymore. Maybe I need to check with the lasik doc and ask an expert! Thanks, Ellie.
Wow Stef, As I read your post it was like looking in a (blurry) mirror. I went through the EXACT same thing (sans the seeing eye husband and ball gown) but, last year my eye Dr fitted me with bifocal contacts. It took about 2 months to get the Rx exact but once they did woooooooo Hooooooo. I love them. I too sit at the computer, during tax season about 16 hours a day (and might I add… TG tomorrow is the 15th, I’m due for a LONG slumber)OK focus Nancy… anyway LOVE the bifocal contacts, I can see labels… see the computer… and see for distance…! Now all I need to do is find a function where ballgowns are required.
My dil is having PRK. I would inquire about that option.